What is the nature of triangulation according to Structural Family Therapy?

Triangulation in the context of Structural Family Therapy refers specifically to a situation where a child becomes involved in the conflicts between their parents. This typically occurs when one parent enlists the child as an ally or confidant in order to reduce the stress of conflict with the other parent. As a result, the child may align with one parent, creating a dynamic where two parties (the parent and the child) form a coalition against the third party (the other parent). This can complicate family dynamics and often leads to unhealthy relational patterns.

The concept of triangulation highlights how family members can become entangled in each other's issues, leading to distorted communication and relationship problems. It does not reflect a healthy collaboration among family members, nor is it a technique aimed at strengthening family bonds; instead, it signifies dysfunction and difficulty in resolving conflicts directly. Furthermore, it is not characterized by effective communication, as it often involves indirect communication channels rather than open dialogue among all members involved.